Posted by
Ericka Andersen on Monday, September 25, 2006 4:35:26 PM
In Washington, it’s impossible to escape the noisiness of today’s exaggerated political polarization. It ascends skeptically from bitter newsprint, relentless campaigning, and heartfelt lobbyists, on the cusp of the mid-term election. But most people don’t call DC home. We are mostly imports, hailing from politely trimmed suburbs, Southern backyards, or blacktopped cities of similar bustle. And we thrive from the differences, even in conflict.
I’ve learned valuable politics from my friend Tiffany, though our thinking is anything but aligned. Disagreement regarding affirmative action was a recent battle. Fortunately, we overcame this grievance, but not without a lesson in standards. We are black and white, literally and figuratively, a reality I used to my advantage in this particular disparity.
Though we differ on the issue for valid reasons, seeking sincere relevance from the other side of the spectrum lent a stable foundation for my own platform. I realized that I’d pawned off some major issues as purely political. From Tiffany, I learned that finding a personal element is essential in making a stance. If you can’t make the controversy personal, question the faith with which you back it. I began putting faces to the issue and discovered real people, not merely anonymous, coldly typed positions.
Author Tammy Bruce wrote, “I now realize that those who disagree with me also have good points. I hope they reflect on their position as often as I do on mine, because both camps are on the razor’s edge. We will have to agree to disagree, but only now do I consider those on that other side decent people – as decent as I, but with a different focus…” Bruce, openly gay and former California president of the National Organization for Women, embraces many aspects of political conservatism, to the abhorrence of most in her social circle. She is, therefore, criticized constantly by her peers but she and I are similar in this approach to understanding the other side.
As a black teacher of primarily Latino children in inner city Houston, Tiffany said, “For me, it isn't just politics, or theory… it is the reality that my parents and grandparents faced…and the reality that my (students) will face.” I have been to her classroom and seen the eyes of those kids, wide eyed with aspiration beyond their current situations. So I made it personal, through Tiffany’s plight, and that of her students.
However, it’s personal for me too. In light of affirmative action, a less qualified person may be hired over me simply because they aren’t white. That’s a fact that shouldn’t exist. Admission and hiring practices should be truly equal opportunity, regardless of race, religion, ethnicity, or sexual preference. Yes, minorities have historically been oppressed in this country, hence the original need for AA. Presently, the program serves only as a reverse form of racism. I don’t pretend to feel sorry for white males, but how can you promote equality while taking pains to segregate?
America has progressed significantly in a short time, essentially eliminating the need to physically supply equal opportunity. This sentiment, in fact, does not accurately exist. For example, children of married parents perform statistically better in most areas than those of divorce. Is this to say that children of divorce should receive a step on the AA ladder? Numerous theoretical instances surface when you start counting the ways life is not fair. Everyone will not start out on a leveled playing field- red, yellow, black, or white- but individuals have the responsibility to make their own lives. Luck plays a hand but life is mostly opportunity taken advantage of without excuse.
Compassion isn’t necessarily about agreement. Politics certainly isn’t, but you should question yourself always because when that ceases, you lose the validity of your bearings. When you no longer hear the authenticity of the opposition’s struggle, you lose a crucial basis.
Since moving to DC, my world implodes with news and never-shy opinion splayed shamelessly. It’s difficult to form nonpartisan viewpoints in light of this wordy environment, so inept with self-righteous rambling. Articulate, respectful discussions about dissenting viewpoints on a regular basis are essential. Tiffany and I maintain separate ideals. Neither of us convinced the other, but we could still walk confident of one another’s sincerity for the cause.
Relying only on purely like-minded web sites, columnists, and programs doesn’t help your political standpoint. Knowing the opposition makes you wiser, more articulate, and less biased. You must be exposed to diverse opinion to balance your perspective, to be a valid voice in rationality. Constant reliance on similar rhetoric blindsides the reality of well grounded counter-arguments that can be used to strengthen and modify your own.
JFK said, “We are not afraid to entrust the American people with unpleasant facts, foreign ideas, alien philosophies, and competitive values. For a nation that is afraid to let its people judge the truth and falsehood in an open market is a nation that is afraid of its people.” Such definitions may differ from one neighbor to the next, but believe that you should be scared of a land where a primary philosophy dominates the governmental landscape. Listen to the voices in the storm that you might find wisdom you hadn’t known.
I read a variety of publications; editorials from politically diverse sources, newspapers small and large, brazenly conservative magazines and loudly liberal newsletters plucked for a store’s corner rack. DC encompasses a go-getter energy incomparable to any other place in the world; people ardent about literally saving the world through the platforms they’ve chosen. Those with the endurance to sit on a street for 10 hours supporting a cause represents a dedicated attitude too rarely mimicked in America’s lazily careless, news-drenched pit of baseless opinion. The motivation to uphold morale aside from un-researched blabbering, is commendable in today’s lethargic blogospheres. Draw from the other side once in awhile, research your cause if you really want to make a statement, and make friends with the one it might actually affect. Then, the sheath of the hypothetical will not be your muse.